So true. From the heart of a woman.
Eileen Chang (張愛玲), one of the most influential Chinese writers, once wrote: a man’s heart can be reached through his stomach, and a woman’s through her vagina. Such words, straightforward and even cruel, revealed simple and humble natures of a woman.
For many girls, the first sexual experience may feel as confusing as sleepwalking. In most cases she has no preparations on what she is looking for and what she is about to get, sexual satisfaction is beyond her reach. The imperfect experience forms part of the reasons that the relationship with her first sexual partner is usually short lived.
Despite this after her very first sexual encounter, an impression on her partner, more or less, good or bad, may be stored in her memory for the rest of her life. This might be why even nowadays an oriental man is still obsessed with the concept of virginity, carrying an expectation to leave a scar in her heart by being her first before departing to hunt…
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